The Ridge
Friday, Oct. 16th is a blur of a day. It was busy from the get-go. I was committed to cleaning the Mat this morning and didn’t mind the distraction, I have to admit. In the midst of cleaning, the funeral director called with some questions and then we set up a phone appointment at Donna’s for further discussion. Hanover is only 20 minutes to the west of Durham so that was where I headed at 9.
 |
| I think Mom brought me this kind of day |
I needed to get some pictures printed off for Monday and that was where I would find the closest kiosk to ‘diy’ (do it yourself). After about an hour with my sister, I steered my ‘horse’ to Walmart and got the photos I needed. They are very slow in that photo booth though; staff has to come and check you out. Finally, I went to Customer Service and walked right up to pay. LOL
 |
| Just before heading out to work at the Mat |
Already,
I was feeling tired. My sisters and I thought that we’d sleep better after Mom
was at peace but it seemed not to work for me. I was restless a lot through the
night and couldn’t drop off. Hence my exhaustion today. I got through the day,
focusing on packing and filling boxes in the Suite. I didn’t want to sit down
as I knew where that would lead.
I found this dime at the Mat before getting a call from the funeral director
The best news he told me at 8:30 am was that Mom was picked up
last night at 11 pm and was already resting at Mount Brydges funeral home
That made me very happy
I believe that finding a dime, means Daddy is leaving them for us
Today's meaning: perhaps "Mom is with me"
Finally,
Happy Hour (so Pat reminded me), I called my buddies for an overdue chit chat.
I had a straight gingerale on the go and it was so nice to hear their voices
and have a few good laughs. Us sisters, over the past 2 weeks kept vigilance
over our Mom, taking turns sitting with her and each other. It wears on you
whether you realize it at the time or not. The talk was mostly serious and the ‘business’
at hand. I needed this reprieve. Thanks buddies! 😊
Still a beautiful drive in this area
When Bill
got home, we had supper although I don’t recall what we had. That was over 24
hours ago! I do know that I slept well Friday night. Oh! I just remembered! It
was our last Hello Fresh meal and it was very good. Easy Cottage Pie was the
recipe and it didn’t take too much to prep and cook it. Yummy, it was a hit! On
Saturday, Oct. 17th, I woke feeling fresher for sure. No need to
rise too early so we didn’t get up until 7:30.
Easy Cottage Pie in the works
 |
| And on the plate Similar to shepherds pie Delicious! |
Today was
moving day. We were excited, nervous and a little bit concerned. I wasn’t sure whether
all of our freezer stuff would fit in the fridge freezer. They’ve decided that
the big old freezer downstairs is a power eater and it won’t be plugged in.
After one trip, starting at 9:30, with both vehicles loaded, we headed back for
a second. We were feeling the pressure and realized that it wouldn’t be
finished today. We’ll come back tomorrow. On the way home, we stopped for a
Cheddar Bacon Uncle Burger at A & W combo. I’ll do that again; it was yummy
with a Diet Root Beer!
This is a peek over my shoulder at Ptooties clothing load
Bill was
suggested we only take the meat out of the freezer to start and see how much
room we’ll have. I filled the fridge (yes, it was fixed up wonderfully) and
then Bill brought in the meat. Boy, was I surprised when it all fit with room
to spare. So, that means we can bring everything else and there will be no
problem getting it in. 😊 Happy camper again. We worked until
6:30 when we stopped for supper.
Following Bill part way to Paisley
Clemson, enjoying the ridge too
It will
take some getting used to. The stairs, the fridge not being near the butler’s
kitchen, but you know what? We’re going to make it work and be thankful. We are
truly blessed for this experience. Wes and Susan stayed out of our way and yet
were at the ready when we needed to find light switches etc. When we came
upstairs to our room, they invited us to join them anytime for their evening programs.
When I heard ‘we watch Jeopardy at 7:30’, I knew I was IN!
At the top of the stairs and those two steps go up into our room 
Our bedroom
Walkin closet directly ahead and the bathroom across from it
We love the old hardwood floors
The
evening would be short but I wanted to catch up. In between our moving, my 5
sisters and 1 brother kept up the chatter on FB messenger. The plans are coming
together for Mom’s funeral on Monday. Covid-19 sure is playing a hand in the
event, unpleasantly, but again we’ll do what we have to do. Before I go, I just
want to thank EVERYONE for the kind, loving, supportive, reassuring words over
the last couple of weeks. I am truly blessed to have such friends. 😊
Cheddar Bacon Uncle Burger
grass fed beef
Sweet potato fries with dipping sauce
But the sauce burned my throat so I put the lid on and ate them plain
That's our day! Good night!
Thank you
for checking us out today. Our new adventure has begun.