Lovely Change in Weather, Bill Back to Work

The Ridge - Home

Through the late night and early morning hours of Thursday, May 2^nd we were awake a few times. Clemson was either too hot, too cold but definitely not ‘just right’ as he would move and shake two or three or four times. This would wake us, waiting to see if he was going to settle back down or if he was going to jump off the bed.

Once the fog cleared, I got out for a beautiful walk with NO wind

I didn’t realize that he actually did hop down at 1:15 when he moved as I must have dropped right off again. Poor Bill had to get up and take him outside, unbeknownst to me. Next thing I heard was Bill downstairs finishing his breakfast at 5:15. I took my earplugs out and listened while he finished everything else before coming to the bedroom for my goodbye kiss and hug. He slipped off into the foggy morning with Black Beauty.

I wasn't putting too much faith in a sun appearance today

I'd asked a few days ago if he would mind leaving Ptooties this time, since it would be a longer stretch away and he obliged. I know it doesn’t make sense to do that too often but I was happy to have the SUV for some errands today. I dropped back off to sleep at 6 as he pulled out and didn’t see daylight until 10 to 8! My goodness, I guess I caught up on the lost sleep just fine!

Walking the country road, things are drying up

The fog was still thick at the road and Clemson was still sleeping (of course he was!) so I had my tea while finishing my post from yesterday. We were home in good time last night but I was too tired to even think about finishing the day’s catch up. I would make too many mistakes and be too impatient so waited until morning. Seldom does my blog get posted without a proofread although it has happened on occasion.

Bill was kind enough to pick me up 6 bags of black mulch
the other day at Walmart
The price was crazy cheap!

After Clemson got up and went out for his morning business, I took our small Canon camera, my phone and a plastic bag for a walk. I grabbed a makeshift walking stick that I’d picked up last summer just because it was there. I decided this walk would be for the environment as well as for me and although I will not pick up garbage (we pay for our bag pickups) I gathered a grocery bag full of plastic bottles, pop cans and the odd beer can and bottle. My contribution and this time not for the $$.

And we wonder why accidents happen
the little green car and this suv were taking everyone's lives in their hands
passing at high speeds and in unsafe areas

After getting my 2 ½ miles in and returning home, I sorted the collection and came inside. I did find 4 cash-able returns. Yesterday I’d picked up some fresh fruit for my smoothies so pulled the creamy mix out of the fridge and blended it to delicious splendor! I know the fruit has natural sugar but in moderation along with the cream products, I’m not concerned. There is enough good fat in each glassful and it is quite tasty. I had a bit of the creamy Jell-o at noon and got cleaned up for a trip in to Hanover.

We got the call yesterday that our carpets were ready, the ones we purchased in Quartzsite. One needed to be cut to length and the two new ends bound. Bill did our last one himself but a professional fix for $25 was worth it to get a good colour match. I am so pleased that our weather is finally straightening up. Even if there is no sunshine yet, at 59F/15C and rising, I’m a happy camper.

It is celebratory in itself that it isn’t raining and there is hardly any wind at all. The sun made an appearance just after lunch and stuck around for much of the afternoon. Maybe a sunset tonight? I got cleaned up and drove to Hanover, just after the lunch hour, to Cuneo Interiors Carpet One. It was a surprise that the cutting and rebinding service was even less that originally quoted. Bonus!

My sister's lovely home

I drove to my sister’s house and dropped off a card for Gerry since we didn’t get over on his birthday. Just this morning we all concluded that the boys’ (Gerry and John) birthday dinner will be on Monday night. The 6 of us have made it a bit of a tradition and we all enjoy the evening out to venues in the area. After Donna’s place, I stopped in at Giant Tiger and Dollarama. Since I’m in town, you know. I found a few little things at each place and then scooted home.

I had ground beef and sausages to divide into freezer packs so did that, cleaned up the dishes and moved the leftover cake into a smaller container. The fridge and freezer are full now so we should be able to have decent meals for a while. Once I got things tidied up in that department, I set about getting the vacuum out so I could replace the hallway runner at least. It was from our sticks and bricks home, bought a long time ago to match the interior. It worked well then but now it is time for it to go.

5 meals with ground beef and 6 meals of sausages

I got the floors done and the new runners in place, with a little velcro to hold them in place, just in time to get Clemson his supper. The King mustn’t wait, you know! It is warm inside the Suite so windows are open. I haven’t given much though to what I’m going to have for supper. Maybe some chicken hearts and Brussel sprouts. Now doesn’t that sound wonderful? Haha some of you are curling up your noses, my hubby being one when he reads this. 😊 You don’t have to eat it.

Out with the old

In with the new

So, after receiving a text from Bill at 5:45 that he was still working, delivering a trailer to Ailsa Craig, I decided not to wait too much longer for my supper. I sat with Clemson and read some more. It was likely 6:15 when I began cutting up the chicken hearts with green onions and zucchini. Frying them in butter with salt and pepper, I got the sprouts out of the freezer and prepped them for microwave cooking.

Frying in butter

Brussel sprouts

Oh my, this was delicious! I enjoyed it very much and will do it again for a nice keto dish when I’m on my own. 

Before dishes, I took a walk down the lane way with Clemson. He seemed keen to get out with me. The frogs were already chirping up a storm and it reminded me of how Scott was blown away by their volume. I wonder how many decibels they are? As I walked, I saw many turtles sitting along the banks of the pond islands – over there. They aren't skittish because I'm not too close.

I'm losing hope of a sunset

But then I saw some hope again
In the end, it never happened

Going for a walk with Mom
Neither of us needed a jacket at 7

She doesn't seem to be on very solid ground
but she isn't budging

Ma Goose was still sitting on her nest and the most fun thing I saw was the muskrat/otter swimming right towards me. 

He was wasting no time whatsoever
I could see his eyes here

He realized I was a real person, not a tree

Okay, I guess I'll go the other way

At first, I thought he was going to come straight at us to the bank but at the last minute he made an ‘s’ turn and carried on another way. That was funny. I see him all the time swimming across both ponds like little motor boats. Actually, sitting here at the table, there is more than one. They are having fun out there and I can watch them by their wake.

Father Goose is in the opposite pond and just sits there most of the day

Reflections are beautiful

I did the dishes when we returned and went to work on this post so I could sit with my little buddy. This has been a good day, never great when I am here alone, but a good one for sure. The evening was spent with my book, well, maybe I will turn the tv on so I can watch a recorded movie. Otherwise the nights seem very long. I hope you’ve enjoyed your day and a little more warmth and dryness. At least, I can say that here on The Ridge. Yay! 

The pussy willows are confused and already bursting

He's telling me that he wasn't going to eat the finch food
Yah right

Bill called at 7:45 after arriving at his 'summer' trailer at Kirk's. We chatted and caught up. He read me a text from our West friends, such dear friends, they never, never forget our special occasions. We didn't need the text to remind us that we will be apart on our special day for the first time. This year it can't be helped.

One of my favourite views no matter how high or low the water is

And the winds have remained low all day
This is all the sunset amounted to before it disappeared behind those clouds
Good night y'all!

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Windy Drive to London, Doctor, Doctor, A Tearful Goodbye to My Friend

The Ridge

The battering winds woke us up on Wednesday, May 1^st around 5 and I went back to sleep eventually praying for some calm before 6:30 when I’d planned on getting up. No such luck. Bill got up first and turned the furnace on for a quick burst of heat in the bathroom and turned the small heaters up to generate an even heat.  I hopped in the shower right away and then Bill followed when I came down for my tea.

The rain stopped shortly after we got on the highway
but it was a dull cloudy drive

The little heaters will remain on until we leave but the furnace got turned off when we were done in the bathroom. At 7:30 no way was I hungry, and I do believe after a discussion with my sisters on Saturday, that the cream and coconut oil in my tea each morning keeps my hunger at bay longer than Bill’s w/o the fat of the oil. I was wondering why he was hungry sooner and I could often go until 11 or later. This morning he had toast and a yogourt and I had some Jell-o.

Crossing the Avon River in Stratford

Once cleaned up, we had a discussion as we watched the sky get darker still and the rain even heavier. We were planning on taking both vehicles. Bill has a doctor’s appointment at 12 noon to chat about the results from his blood work. That never pleases us as it is never good news. His weight is down though quite a bit since last fall so he is anxious for the doc to see that.

This is a popular spot for tourists during the summer months especially

We have the visitation for Mark at 2 so the timing worked out well. Any other day this week and it wouldn’t have worked for us to attend. It will be hard, very hard for me but I want/need/have to be there. I was going to follow Bill in Ptooties and after the visitation, return with Clemson on our own. He works tomorrow and Friday.

Stratford is another city with a lot of beautiful historic buildings
to photograph

With the weather, we decided that it makes no difference in fuel usage if we both drive together in Ptooties, there and back today and Bill head out in the morning. I feel better because it also means that we’ll have our sweetie for one more night. At 8:45 Ellen and Scott popped over to say goodbye and thank us for the stay. It was great to see them before they head out for their new adventure. P.E.I. wow! Now we will have a place to stay when we make a trip out east! 😊

So, I tried to capture a few on the drive through

We were on our way at 9. The drive to the big city was uneventful, which is always good when you are travelling for2 ½ hours. Clemson was restless in the back seat, for some reason couldn’t settle down but he was quiet at least as he roamed back and forth. In his seat belt he can only move so far so his safety was guaranteed. 

I wouldn't want to own it, but I'd love a tour!

We arrived at the west corner of London, close to the doc’s office but we were too early. A good time to make a pit stop and then we went to The Shoe Company store, which we’d never been to before.

Crossing the mighty Thames (pronounced Temes) River
around London

Bill was happy that he found a pair of good shoes that he can wear to work since his other black leather ones are looking pretty rugged. He likes to look neat and tidy and he needed slip ons for going in and out of rvs with a client. The prices were high enough but as long as he is happy. Then we drove to our Dr.’s office with a bit of trepidation in hearing what he had to say.

When I lived in Lucan with our parents, this Presbyterian Church
at Ilderton was where we went every Sunday
Later, in early 70's (?) my sister, Donna, married her first husband here and I was a bridesmad
for the first time

While waiting the few minutes to see him, we both weighed ourselves on their reliable old-fashioned scales and were quite pleased with the results. Especially Bill’s. The results from his bloodwork also was favourable and we are all very pleased. This was just a routine follow-up that the doctor has to do when monitoring something specific. We left with (as my sister says) a gold star and encouragement to keep doing what we’re doing. And that is to protect Bill’s natural insulin count!

High rise apartments are popping up all over the city of London
not to mention the multiple new condo complexes

I had to peek up the sidewalk as we drove by but it was too blurry of a picture to share

The large University Hospital ahead on the edge of the UWO Campus

The second order of the day was the toughest. We went to McFarlane and Roberts Funeral Home in Lambeth for 2 o’clock and it was a packed place. Mark was a great guy and Leah, his wife, worked in the city council offices for many years. I wouldn’t recognize too many of them but we did say hello to Bud Polhill, a familiar face on television news. I lost it to tears a couple of times, some things I can’t hide, and I give so much praise to the strength shown by Leah, Brittany and Matthew as they greeted everyone.
                                            Now bear with me while I record some pictures
                                            for my own memory and collections please

Mark as a young lad

Mark and the upcoming star hockey player, Mitch Marner
who began playing for The London Knights

Mitch, from Thornhill, stayed with Mark's family in London during his rookie season
and eventually helped lead the Knights in winning the 2016 Memorial Cup
Mark treated Mitch like a son during the years he resided with them and beyond

 We saw a few former co-workers, which was nice, but was blessed when Leah told Bill and I that while Mark was sick in his short month and a half, since learning of his state of health, he had our names on his list of people to call to see when he was better. It broke my heart, but she wanted us to know that he thought of us often. I will treasure that as I move forward through this grief that still smacks me in the face since I heard the news.

And a special collection of the Mark we knew

A unique feature in London, single lane walkway and tunnel

After leaving the home, we decided to go to Costco instead of Bill having to stop after work this week and I’m glad we did. It gave me the opportunity to pick up a couple of things that he wouldn’t have thought of and we didn’t have on the list. With that done, we headed home in the rain. 

It was a good dry day until that point when we walked out of Costco so it looked like a nasty drive home. It wasn’t too bad but driving the first stretch of about 40 minutes on the 401 is always worse with traffic.

The drive home started out this way but soon cleared

 It was tiring following behind a dump truck as we approached Stratford so after finding out Jess was home; we made a quick stop for a visit and to see Easton before continuing on the last stretch. Easton wasn’t up for company; I think we disturbed his sleep but it was nice to see them both briefly and to hold that little bundle once more. Our baby fix for the week. It was 5:30 when we pulled up onto the Ridge after a long but good day.

Jess and Matt's attractive building

With everything unloaded and food put away, Clemson got fed and I was grateful that we had enough leftover roast beef to put together another meal for us. It just meant heating things up in the microwave and we were eating soon after. I was starved. We did manage to have lunch at Wendy’s before the visitation and I forced myself to have a chicken Caesar salad and a diet Gingerale instead of a juicy burger. It wasn’t too bad but their dressing leaves a bit to be desired.

An easy meal waiting for us at home

Supper was good and we even topped it off a bit later with some ice cream. We hadn’t had any for a while and it was yummy. Chapman’s Black Cherry, need I say more? We watched 3 of our hour-long recorded programs and half way through The Enemy Within I was sleeping so went up to bed with Clemson. 

I wanted to share this picture of this old sprawley tree on a busy street in London
Notice, how the hydro wire runs right through it yet they don't chop the tree down
It is called the 'Forest City' after all

Exhaustion was in control and I don’t fight it when that happens. All in all, it was a great day and things turned out really well. I was grateful that Bill and I drove together and that we crawled in bed together. 😁

And what better sign of spring than a very full tulip tree
Except for the aftermath of cleanup, a beautiful tree

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