On Thursday, Oct. 5th we
were up together when Clemson decided it was time. He had been tucked down
under the covers between us for most of the night. We didn’t turn any heat on
last night even though we knew it was going down to 8C. Under the covers, it was
toasty for all of us but cool when we came downstairs. It was 14C inside. First
thing for a couple of hours we put the Blue Flame heater on to warm things up.
I got carried away when I slipped outside to get morning sky pictures. So not to bore you all at once, I've spread them throughout my post.
Awesome the way the rising sun lights up our neighbours home |
Removing one board to wrap the chain through |
And Bill does what he loves to do - pull things |
Today, I’m going to get my hands
dirty and try to clean up the gardens. I have pulled up some of the geraniums
that have exploded this summer and they are going down to the area I cultivated
earlier in August. Doing this now will give them a good start at getting their
roots into the ground before spring. I’m being really positive here. At least
the weather is going to co-operate with outside work.
My wagon full of uprooted plants |
Prepping the ground again |
All planted in between the tiger lilies |
After having a yogourt at 10 I went into
town to pick up a few things for Sunday and dropped some empties at the Beer
Store. When I got back, I changed and went out to start playing in the dirt. Bill
drove the truck down to the dock area and hooked one section up to the truck by
chain. He dragged it up to our parking area and began dismantling it. I walked
back after retrieving the mail. The box was jammed full with our flyers as well
as our new ROD directory. These are our membership campgrounds.
Plants all along the fence line now |
With my wagon loaded I walked down to
the end of the lane and loosened the earth again, where I want to plant.
Positioning the geranium plants along the edge I made a trench to place their
tangled roots in. It’s funny because with all of these that you see here, the
original plants in the garden do not even look disturbed. It is an easy plant
to transplant for sure.
I finished my job and came back up to
find that Bill had pretty much finished cutting the old deck boards into ‘firepit’
size pieces. I came inside feeling peckish around 2 and read emails. I needed a
snack so cut some cheese and munched on that with a few chips.
My sister, Cathy, was having
doubts about our decision NOT to take Mom to the funeral tomorrow. That isn’t
good since I firmly believe we are doing what is best for Mom. Instead of waiting to hear what my other 4 sisters came back with, Bill suggested I go to Rockwood and see if I
could chat with someone there about it. Great idea! If they thought she would
be fine, maybe I’d reconsider. I found Amanda, a staff member who spends a lot
of time with our Mom.
After explaining our dilemma, she
very quickly, without any hesitation opined that we should not be taking Mom
out for such a long confusing day. We chit chatted a bit more about how Mom
would have difficulty handling it IF she ever thought of it again. Big ‘if’.
So, the relief melted off my shoulders and I thanked her for her opinion and
walked down the hall to see the lady of the hour.
Mom wasn’t in her room but I found
her in exercise class. I wasn’t going to tell her about her brother’s passing
until after the funeral, just to simplify the explanation, so didn’t disturb
her today. I’ll see her on Saturday to choose clothes for Thanksgiving at her
granddaughters and then on Sunday to pick her up for dinner. This an outing she
will enjoy even if she does not remember it later on.
Back home I sent an email to family
about my visit in the hope that everyone agrees with a professional. Now I need to decide what
to wear tomorrow, I have many options! The clouds have moved in but it has
still been a lovely day out there. Bill had all the wood cut and stacked by the
fence so another thing off the list. I’m so happy to see the old dock cleaned
up, one down, one to go. We’re deciding what to do with the other piece.
I wanted to walk down and water my
plants so filled the watering can and took care of that. Brr, the wind is cool
on bare arms. Deceiving since the sun is so warm. Inside, Bill fed Clemson and we sat together
in our recliners. Me with my book and Bill with NCIS. We caught up last night
on some of our recorded programs and enjoyed them all. The Good Doctor was good
on its second night and we watched the first episode of Brave. Another one we
need to follow.
I didn't find Mom in her room but I did see all her dolls bagged up in a pillow case |
We had supper, cleaned up and I
clarified details of what time to leave in the morning to go to Hanover. Donna
has offered to drive from there for the 2 ½ trip to Glencoe for the funeral and
we’ll pick Cathy up on the way at Teeswater. At least it will be a bit of fun
on an otherwise sad day.
And the late afternoon sky gave us this |
We settled in to watch the second
episode of Brave we’d recorded and the sun set without me even paying
attention. How’d that happen? This has been a mixed-up day but we still managed
to get things done. I hope yours went well also.
Thank you for following along today.
Your comments are welcome!
I'm beginning to think of you as Patsy the Gardener!
ReplyDeleteHa ha, only temporary! :)
DeleteThink that was a good decision about your mother. Drive safely to Gloncoe and back.
ReplyDeletethank you George, it was tough.
DeleteI love those perennial geraniums. They do tend to try to take over though. They look great along the fence line and will fill in nicely. We also watched the second episode of Brave last night and decided it is a keeper. It will be a nice 'chatty' drive to Glencoe this morning and a good day to lay Uncle Harold to rest.
ReplyDeleteI love them too! They are easy to contain.
DeleteWe are loving brave and Dalton isn't hard to look at.
Should be a good day.